The Gift of Downsizing

25 August 2010

Living in a smaller space has significantly improved my quality of life. I always knew it was better to live in smaller quarters for the energy efficiency, but there were some of spillover benefits I didn’t realize until I actually started living in a smaller place. For instance, I don’t buy as much, and I appreciate what I have more. I’m more resourceful, efficient, and I save a lot more money because of that. When I had a lot of space to stash things, I could just keep buying stuff. Whereas before, I had a whole second bedroom to use as my closet of clothes and a garage of shoes I didn’t even remember I had, I now have three rods to hang clothes, and a few shelves and drawers. The limitations make me carefully consider what I have and what I need. Now that I only have so many items of clothes to choose from, getting dressed takes less time too. It’s either the pink t-shirt, pink button down, or pink stripey shirt with the black or brown pants. No more rummaging through two bedrooms full of clothes. There just aren’t the massive piles of crap that I know I’m not going to wear and yet still have to dig through. With the limited space, I’ve also stopped most of my shopping. And I don’t feel deprived because I dig out more of my previously purchased outfits that I had never worn and wear them! Imagine that. New clothes without the shopping. Even now having taken such a hiatus on shopping, I still have clothes I don’t wear or have never worn. Come this winter, I will be cleaning out my closet again. Last winter, I bagged up 6 or so trash bags full of clothes and accessories. That feeling of getting rid of stuff is very cleansing. I feel less weighed down by crap. And I don’t miss those items at all. I can’t even remember what they were really.

Now there was a time of adjustment that I needed to get used to smaller quarters. The kitchen was one of the challenges. With limited cabinet and counter space, I have to be better about putting things away and not buying too many kitchen gadgets or dishes. But it hasn’t kept me from cooking and entertaining guests. I’m also more careful at considering and reconsidering my needs versus wants. Now, instead of placing an Amazon order frivolously or whenever it occurs to me, I put things in my cart and leave them there for days or even weeks before I finally order, or not. The hairdryer in my shopping cart has gone down by $5 in the weeks it’s taken me to think about buying it. I’m still thinking.

I also live more comfortably. It’s easier to regulate the temperature of a small space. Also, my commute is ridiculously easy and I don’t have a car, nor do I miss it or the bills and the maintenance that comes with it. I don’t miss vacuuming big rooms either. A quick swish of a sweeper and the floors are done. And I’m even lazy about that, frankly.

Less really is more and I don’t miss the square footage.

Lost Dog

29 July 2010

Doesn’t it seem like all I talk about these days is food, food, and more food? It’s like all I do is eat. I guess it’s partly true, I do love me some food.

So I diligently packed my trusty point and shoot camera with me today and when I tried to take pictures I realized there was no memory card in there. I had taken it out during the Europe trip and never replaced it. No matter – lately, I’ve been blogging just fine without the pictures, though how can you imagine it without seeing it, right? I mean, a big part of the enjoyment of the food is the looking. That’s why we love buffets. Strolling through the displays and admiring all the wonderful possibilities you can shove into your mouth… ahhh.

Ok, I’m going off on a tangent. FOCUS! Lost Dog Cafe. Pizza. Mmmm…. We shared a large Rin Tin Tin (mushrooms, tomato, basil, cheese, and other herbs and greens on a whole wheat crust). The crust is crispy and thin and we both agreed it was tastier than John’s Pizzeria. Sorry NYC, apparently, burb yups can eat as well as the rest of you. The toppings were generous, cheesy, and we loved the uncooked basil leaves sprinkled all over the pizza. The two of us almost managed to finish a whole pie. Had I not had the gimongo lunch at Amina Thai today, I would’ve been able to have more. I noticed the other peoples’ dishes and sandwiches all looked equally delicious. I think this is definitely worth going to and it’s my new favorite pizza place.

Girls’ Day Out

26 July 2010

This past Sunday, I joined a friend for lunch in Alexandria. Bombay Curry Company. Their buffet was small with very little selection, but what they had was fantastic. I ate EVERYTHING! Three times! I should’ve stopped at plate two though. A. I felt stuffed. B. They stopped taking my plate away after plate two. C. They stopped refilling our water glasses. Yeah if that wasn’t a subtle hint to stop eating, bringing us the check before we even hit dessert made it crystal clear. No matter, it’s a buffet. I wasn’t expecting top notch service. The food alone left me very satisfied. Usually I prefer the rice but their naan here was so good I couldn’t stop myself. I would come back – though I’m not sure they’d want me back since I eat like Sonia Thomas. After lunch we went shopping at all the little boutiques along the road. It was over 100 degrees and we walked about, ducking from one air conditioned shop to another. I don’t know how these businesses stay afloat selling some of the old-lady clothes and tchotchkys and trinkets. I guess folks are still unaware of the magic of Etsy. Still, we both enjoyed window shopping, appreciating the fun of just browsing random shops one after another. I did buy one useful thing – a lightbulb. Finally when we could take the heat no longer, we headed over to the Dairy Godmother. I got their lime mint sorbet. So refreshing! I like this little town, Alexandria.

Eatonville

26 July 2010

Saturday night, we had a surprise birthday dinner for a friend in a downtown restaurant called Eatonville. It’s named after Eatonville, FL and the food is southern comfort. Hushpuppies, pork chops, fried green tomatoes, shrimp creole.

The evening was HOT! I mean we walked from 16th Street, through Meridian Hill Park, to 14th Street – a short 15 minute walk left me hot and sweaty. I was hoping for a gush of cold air walking into the restaurant but it was hot inside too. I grabbed a menu and started fanning myself as we worked our way to the table. I thought, yuck, I can’t eat anything, it’s too hot.
Shrimp Creole Shrimp Creole

I guess southern food was made for hot weather. It’s so good, it brings your appetite back. The hushpuppy appetizer is one giant round of fried corn bread, served with a very delicious shrimp and tomato sauce, and the fried green tomatoes were amazing! And I’m so glad we decided to share an entree because their portions would make the Cheesecake Factory blush.

Pork Chops Giganto Pork Chop
One person joked after he ate all he could of his pork chop that it was now a normal sized chop. Our shrimp creole came in a bowl as large as a large pho. It was filled with rice, a tomatoey sauce, and a generous amount of shrimp and crawdads – I think those are crayfish. It was delicious and we were both stuffed to the gills.

In short, I would go back and I would recommend others to try it.

Etsy Addict

19 July 2010

etsy
Months back I told a friend about Etsy, this website I love to browse. They sell handmade items, from clothes to handbags, to jewelry and paintings. Many of the sellers create the items at home as a hobby. I had never ordered anything from Etsy. I guess part of my reluctance was that it’s a conglomeration of sellers. I don’t know how reliable they are or the quality of the products. This friend I shared it with however went ahead and got addicted to Etsy and went on to actually buy things from there. She got these stacked fine silver rings and I saw them and had to have them. So here I got my own. They’re from a seller called buyhappiness. Indeed I’m happy. She even emailed me to ask me what my favorite color was so she could add the ring with stones as a bonus. How generous! I’m now hooked on this website. Uh-oh.

Best Grilled Cheese Ever

18 July 2010

And I wonder why my pants are all too tight.

Last week, at Northside Social, I had the tastiest grilled cheese sandwich ever! It had 4 different kinds of cheeses and some tomato spread. The creamy tomato soup went perfectly well with it. I’m still smacking my lips. Next Friday I will have it again!!

Yesterday, because I had such a mind-blowing grilled cheese experience last week, I decided to order the same thing again at Luna Grill in Shirlington. It would have been an otherwise perfectly fine lunch except it was ordinary. They made it with one cheese – American. Northside Social has ruined me to the ordinary grilled cheese sandwich.

How to make Monday nights less Monday-ne

12 July 2010

Work today was as crappy as ever any Monday could be. I wound up staying a bit longer which sucked as usual. But! BUT!! We had plans to go listen to a guitarist who was playing at a restaurant tonight so I had something to look forward to. La Porta in Alexandria. An Italian place – semi fancy but not to the point of schmancy. What I mean is, $30 entrees, but no tablecloths. Without a reservation, we were promptly seated. It’s Monday! The guitarist was wonderful. We enjoyed him immensely and so did a certain little 4 or 5 year old boy who came up more than once to drop money into the tip jar and even requested Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. If you’re ever free on a Monday or Tuesday night, they have $30 specials which includes 2 dinners and a bottle of wine. Can’t beat that! And if you can make it on a Monday night, live music. The music alone would make this place a worthwhile visit but even the food is better than say, The Wharf’s. We had a fish of the day and ravioli. Both dishes were simple, yet delicious. What a way to make an otherwise dreary day, better. I’ve had a headache all day today and still it was a wonderful, fun evening.

Wacky Metro, Tasty Food

10 July 2010

I spoke too soon about the Metro. Yesterday morning, my train broke down for no apparent reason. It wasn’t overpacked. It just went out of service at one station and everybody off loaded.

On a brighter note, we went to The Wharf Restaurant in Alexandria and had a very good dinner. We got horseradish salmon, crawfish crab imperial, and she-crab soup. The salmon could have used more horseradish but on the whole, the food was good. I enjoyed all the dishes, the service was attentive, but not too hovery and I would come back here again.

On the way home, we walked to the Metro, realized they were single tracking a lot of lines to the point where they didn’t even post how long our train was going to take to arrive. Tired and sleepy, we cabbed it back. With the price hikes, the cost savings from taking the Metro was too small to be worth the wait.

Ahhhh…

13 June 2010

This is the break I needed after the vacation. A nice relaxing welcome-home weekend. The orderliness of American drivers and hearing American English everywhere just felt comfortable and familiar. (I don’t miss the sprawling parking lots and general inefficiencies of suburban strip malls though.) Yesterday we attended a cooking knife skills class to learn the basic skills of how to julienne, chop an onion, bell pepper, crack a coconut, cut citrus, and even how to hold a knife, hone it with a honing steel, along with what knives most cooks need and the varieties out there. It was a lot of information but very helpful as a basic class. At the beginning of class people went around to introduce themselves saying what they wanted out of the class. Several of them had fancy knives like Shun’s and Wusthof’s and didn’t know what to do with them. But they all knew never to put them in the dishwasher! Now I know. :) Since I have a Walmart knife, it goes in the dishwasher. And now that I know fancy knives can’t go in dishwashers I’m staying loyal to $15 knives. After the class we went grocery shopping and then Korean for dinner then more grocery shopping. Restocking the larder. We’ve missed some Asian cuisines like Japanese, Korean, and Indian not because they weren’t available during our trip, in fact they were everywhere, but we just haven’t had them in a while.

Tips if you plan to go to Paris, Rome, or Venice

11 June 2010
  • Go in early Spring or late Fall. Rome is HOT! You will be outdoors for many of the attractions and at the very least walking around a good deal. In fact we probably should have done our trip in reverse: Rome, Venice, Paris.

  • Pre-print maps and know how you’re going to get from the airport to your hotel. In Paris, you can take the train but figure out which train station to get off from and how to walk from the station to the hotel. Same thing for Venice and Rome.

  • Bring a backpack to conveniently carry a jacket/long-sleeved shirt, bottle of water, tissues, Benadryl (for any emergency allergic reactions), and an umbrella.

  • In Paris, just by the day pass for all the trains and all the days you plan on being there, right off the bat at the airport. In Rome, you may just want to pay per trip because you will mostly walk everywhere (4 Euros for the daily pass, 1 Euro per trip. We rode about 2 trips a day if that.). Their train system isn’t as comprehensive but things are close enough to walk.

  • Also in Paris, take the RER as much as possible over the Metro from either airport or anytime carrying a lot of luggage.

  • Watch out for mosquitos in Venice but particularly in Rome. Bring Zyrtec to preemptively fight those itchy mosquito bites. I got attacked every night in our hotel room and even woke up in the middle of the night in fits of scratching. It was pretty torturous.

  • In any city you go, no matter how touristy it is, find a local grocery store to buy your waters. Don’t pay 3 Euros at a tourist stand. They’re really no more than 0.50 Euro a liter.

  • In Paris, water in restaurants can be tap (free) or bottled. We observed about 50/50 tap vs. bottled among the patrons in restaurants. In Italy don’t ask for tap or they’ll think you’re ridiculously cheap. (We learned this from our local Italian friend.) Or just get a bottle of house wine.

  • Get the house wine. It’s inexpensive and good.

  • Go a little off the beaten path to discover restaurants that the locals frequent. In Paris, try to go to at least one restaurant that does not translate the menu into English. Remember, carpaccio = raw, usually raw beef sliced paper thin. In Rome, we found a local restaurant by our hotel where they barely spoke English. We would speak English and the guy would reply in Italian. And yet we understood each other. We loved it so much we went back. In fact if they hadn’t been closed on Sunday we were planning dinner there a third time. Some places will offer you a limoncello gratis if you are a foreigner. I think they just like to see you pucker your face when you down it. We didn’t bring home a bottle of that stuff, if that tells you anything.

  • In predominately Catholic countries, eat dinner early on Sundays or you will be wandering a good deal looking for an open restaurant. In Paris we wound up eating at a Kosher restaurant on Sunday night and in Rome, we ate at an Italian place but the manager that night was Indian and the chef in the kitchen was another Asian.

  • IMPORTANT TIP!! For some tourist attractions, you can buy one ticket to see multiple places. Go to the least popular site of the package deal to buy the ticket because there will be little to no line. Then when you get to the popular attraction, you can bypass the chaos of the long lines. In Venice, the Correr Museum and the Doge’s Palace are one ticket. We went to the Correr first and got our ticket which was good for the day and also covered the Doge’s Palace which had long lines that morning. In Rome, we waited an hour at the Colosseum for a ticket which was in package with the Roman Forum and Palatino. Had we been savvier, we would’ve gone to the Palatino/Forum for our ticket and then headed to the Colosseum. Live and learn.

  • In Paris you might be able to purchase from your hotel, museum ticket package deals where one ticket will get you into Musee Louvre and d’Orsay and such. If you’re planning to go to them anyway, it’s worth it. In Rome, if you want to go into St. Peter’s Basilica in Vatican City, you might consider joining a tour group when you book your trip or ask your hotel to arrange a tour group. Otherwise, you’re in for a long wait with a line that seems to wrap around the whole square. We wound up taking photos of the outside and being satisfied with that. Rome has so many beautiful sites to see, missing out on the Sistine Chapel was to us, not a big deal. Plus, given that we had only 4 days, we knew we wouldn’t get to everything anyway.

  • Be wary of all the knockoff/junk sellers. Things in Europe are generally pricey so if it’s cheap, it’s probably made in China. If you’re going to shop, splurge on something of quality that’s made there. Venice is known for Murano glass and it’s pretty, and not that expensive. I got a good amount of Murano items. In Rome, I bargained with a vendor for a wallet. He went from 15 to 10 to 8 to 5 Euros. I took a closer look at it and said no thanks. Later, we saw other vendors hawking similar wallets for 3 Euro. They were all probably cobbled together by some poor Chinese kids. So when you shop, just be careful. Even paintings, unless the artist himself is painting and selling his works, it’s probably painted by that same poor Chinese kid after he was through cobbling together the janky wallets. We wound up only buying art from one painter in Paris. He had his watercolor paints out, a little bio of himself printed from some website and all his works were unique and he could tell you which vantage point he painted from.

  • Italians don’t dip their bread in olive oil. However you can sop up the sauce from your dish with the bread. Some places will put a bread basket on your table some won’t unless you ask for it. Unlike in Paris though, bread baskets in Rome are not gratis.

  • Watch out for the subway beggars in Rome. They stand by some ticket kiosks with a cup and “help” as you buy your ticket. These machines all have language options for Italian, French, German, and English so you don’t need help. However after you get your ticket they will ask for a donation. You can bypass those kiosks and go to others or you can just ignore them. I don’t like to encourage such behavior because it just encourages them to keep doing that to other tourists.

  • Don’t be shy about asking for directions. They’re a friendly bunch in each of the three cities. I wonder what tourists think of us when they come visit?

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