Two weeks ago, my remaining sane teammate left the team. Granted we were all more or less dissatisfied with our jobs, and sure, we’d have our usual therapy/griping-sessions, but neither of us really actively sought out new employment. Then about three months ago, she got into a pretty heated argument with the boss wherein he said if she was dissatisfied with his treatment of her, she could go find another job. I know he said it in anger but that’s the sort of thing that he does which bristles people. It’s unkind. At about the same time, a lady on another team (who knew of our predicament because she had worked with our boss before) sent my colleague a job opening in her team. Lo and behold, at the suggestion of my boss and the timing of the new opportunity, she applied for that position in the other office.  What had been a team of 7, is now down to 4. Happy for her, totally bummed for me.